Self-awareness is the capacityfor introspection and the ability to recognize oneself as an individual
separate from the environment and other individuals. Self-awareness is a really big deal for everyone, especially
executives and business leaders. Failure to face reality can destroy your
career and your company. Self Awareness
also mean having a clear perception of your personality, including strengths,
weaknesses, thoughts, beliefs, motivation, and emotions. Self Awareness allows
you to understand other people, how they perceive you, your attitude and your
responses to them in the moment.
Self awareness is the first step in creating what you want and mastering
your. Where you focus your attention, your emotions, reactions, personality and
behavior determine where you go in life. It help you to be timely discovering for striking.
Having self awareness allows you to
see where your thoughts and emotions are taking you to. It also allows you to
see the controls of your emotions, behavior, and your real self so you can make
the changes you want. Until you are aware in the moment of the controls to your
thoughts, emotions, words, and behavior, you will have difficulties making changes in the direction of your life.
Self awareness is developed through practices in focusing your attention on the details of your personality and behavior. It isn't learned from reading a book. When you read a book you are focusing your attention on the conceptual ideas in the book. With your attention in a book you are practicing not paying attention to your own behavior, emotions and personality.
Why Develop Self Awareness?
As you develop self awareness you are able to make changes in the thoughts and interpretations you make in your mind. Changing the interpretations in your mind allows you to change your emotions. Self awareness is one of the attributes of Emotional Intelligence and an important factor in achieving success.
As you develop self awareness you are able to make changes in the thoughts and interpretations you make in your mind. Changing the interpretations in your mind allows you to change your emotions. Self awareness is one of the attributes of Emotional Intelligence and an important factor in achieving success.
Self-awareness has been called
"arguably the most fundamental issue in psychology, from both a
developmental and an evolutionary perspective".
In psychology, the concept of
"self-awareness" is used in different ways:
- As a form of intelligence, self-awareness can be an
understanding of one's own knowledge, attitudes, and opinions. Alfred
Binet's first attempts to create an intelligence test included items for
"auto-critique" – a critical understanding of oneself.
- Our general inaccuracy about our own abilities,
knowledge, and opinions has created many popular phenomena for research
such as the better than average effect.
- Albert Bandura has
created a category called self-efficacy that builds on our varying degrees
of self-awareness.
Self Awareness in
Adolescent
Before going into self-awareness in
adolescents there are a few terms that must be stated that fit and help you to
really understand just what self-awareness is. There are self-esteem, self
-concept and self representation. Let’s start with self-esteem. This term is
used in psychology to reflect person's overall emotional evaluation of his or
her own worth. It is a judgment of oneself as well as an attitude toward their
self (Wikipedia). Self-concept is the idea that you have about the kind of
person you are, and the mental image one has of oneself according to Webster.
Self representation is how you represent yourself in public and around others.
Self-awareness in adolescent is when
they are becoming conscious of their emotions. Most children by the age to two
are aware of emotions such as shame, guilt, pride and embarrassment (Zeanah,
84). But they do not fully understand how those emotions affect their life. By
time they become thirteen they are really starting to understand how those
emotions have an impact on their lives. Although they are going through puberty
they really get to understand and really get in touch with their emotions. The
emotions that flow through them at the time they make decisions are not always
good and that is part of what makes adults believe they are confused, but they
really are not.
Self Awareness in RelationshipsRelationships are easy until there is emotional turmoil. There is process of learning to get their emotions together in under control. This is the same whether you are at work or in your personal life. When you can change the interpretation in your mind of what you think you can change your emotions and shift the emotional quality of your relationships. When you can change the emotions in your relationships you open up entirely new possibilities to your life.
Having a clear understanding of your thoughts, emotion, and behavior patterns helps you understand other people. This ability to empathize facilitates better personal and professional relationships.